The concept of "negative politeness" is highly respected in Finnish society. While positive politeness might require one to speak or act when facing others, negative politeness in Finland believes that intruding into others' private space and engaging in unnecessary conversations and behaviors are truly impolite. For instance, in an elevator, sharing it with a stranger can make a Finn feel extremely awkward. On a bus, they would rather stand than sit next to a stranger. And when going out, they are cautious to avoid bumping into neighbors in the corridor.
This unique social phenomenon has even been vividly depicted in a series of comics named "Finnish Nightmares" by Finnish graphic designer Karoliina Korhonen. The comics, which have been translated into multiple languages, have resonated with many people around the world who also experience social awkwardness. However, it should be noted that this so - called "social phobia" is also an integral part of Finland's unique culture, reflecting their deep - seated respect for personal boundaries and privacy.
